Hello Lovelies!
As promised I am back today (Monday) for a new post!
So firstly I wanted to say a massive thank you to everyone for their lovely birthday wishes... I still can't believe I'm already 19!
So this weekend has been very interesting. So much has happened, good and bad and I was so overwhelmed by it all. By Sunday evening, one thing had me extremely intrigued.
So as I scrolled down my wall on Facebook, I saw tens of sweet birthday wishes from people I have barely ever even spoken to. I know a lot of people who would say that "It's a day where people you don't speak to, wish you a happy birthday as if you were ever friends", so in a way they take it negatively but I, on the other hand, thought that it was a nice gesture.
Just think about it, even though you don't speak to some people, they still go out of their way to wish you a happy birthday and even though it may not be much, it really is very thoughtful of them to do so.
This now brings my point. People I have never spoken to on Facebook can take 2 minutes just to write a sweet message yet some of the people I spent all of high school calling my friends didn't.
Now try to see where I am coming from, no I do not expect everyone to do that, heck, I don't even need them to do so but to me, it sounded very unusual.
Anyway yeah so this was an observation I made this weekend. I'm not too sure how I feel about it but that I ain't even mad. I still had the best weekend with my family eating cake and so much chocolate!
I hope you're all having a wonderful Monday wherever you are!
Stay beautiful and be kind to everyone!
Lots of love, Karine xx
I didn't realise it was your birthday - so HAPPY BIRTHDAY for when it was! :)
ReplyDeleteI totally agree with what you said. I think it's really lovely when people I hardly know message me to wish me happy birthday, especially when some of my "friends" don't even bother - even though they have been online!
Glad you had a great weekend! :) xx
Aw thank you!!
ReplyDeleteYeah exactly!!
Thanks! I hope you did too! :) xx
Happy Birthday for yesterday Karine!! I have only just managed to come on here.
ReplyDeleteI hope your birthday was magical and you had a lovely time!!
enjoy every second, beautiful :-)
lots of love xoxo
This is true… I love that you just share your random thoughts! Makes for a really interesting read. I'm always so bothered about what I think others will want to read about so I try and train my writing in some way, but then I see posts like this and think that I should be writing whatever the heck I want. Hope you had a lovely day anyway. Rosemary x
ReplyDeleteI know what you mean. I have thought that in the past, but I find that my closest friends don't use facebook anymore as it's become very generic. (also I deactivated mine years ago, but I mean before that.) We usually send a text, call, or email, depending.
ReplyDeleteI think it's because if you KNOW it's someone's birthday, and spend literally a minute giving a little wish, then why not? Like you said, it's a nice gesture. That's what i think anywhoo c:
You know, I don't even remember your birthday post =/ Happy belated Birthday!
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Thank you Lynsey!! That means a lot!!
ReplyDeleteYou're amazing!! :) xx
Hahaha thank you Rosemary! That is why I stated blogging in the first place, I thought I'd share my opinions and hopefully others could relate as well!!
ReplyDeleteOh yes! I got texts and calls as well! They might have forgotten this year! ah well it happens ay! :p
ReplyDeleteHaha thanks! :)
that's happened to me too. don't feel bad. more people are on twitter and instagram now. i have a facebook page and i'm constantly missing birthdays because i don't check in. your friends may have an account on fb, but not use it. if they are on it, then they should've wished you a happy bday. as you grow older you'll find out who truly are your friends and who are not.
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Sometimes the people who've been there the most for me are my online 'friends'. I think there's a special intimacy which occurs when you speak to someone online a lot - they come into your house every day through your computer, which can be a great deal of support. x x
ReplyDeleteYes that is very true! They were online... omg i sound like a lil creep haha nah but I'm taking this in a positive way. As I grow up, I am slowly finding out who my real friends are and I'm so thankful to have them be part of my life! Thank you for this Kim! :) x
ReplyDeleteVery true Leah! I've met so many lovely people on the internet! :) x
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